Did you know the average wedding in the UK costs around £30k? We've spoken to a variety of experts in the wedding industry for advice on budget wedding ideas and how to lower that eye-watering figure.
It's one of the biggest - and most expensive - days of your life. And sure, all brides and grooms want to honour those wedding traditions and pull off an elaborate affair that everyone will remember. But quite often enough, the matter of money leads many to cut corners. Compromises however need not be the case when it comes to planning your own do, as Sarah Allsop, creative manager at online party products retailer Party Delights explains.
"Due to social restrictions over the last couple of years, many couples have had to delay their weddings or have smaller gatherings than planned. This has led to a big rise in micro weddings and a trend towards DIY decorations, giving the day a much more personal feel," she tells us. "If you are thinking of having a micro wedding, or just want to plan your day on a budget, there are some clever tips and tricks to save on those big costs such as decor, lighting and of course that all-important wedding cake."
Budget wedding ideas - 57 expert tips
Budget wedding venues
1. Seek out cheaper venues
According to a survey by Hitched, the average cost of a UK wedding venue is a whopping £7600. Get creative with cheap venue ideas such as village halls, open spaces or even an AirBnB.
Experts at Slater Menswear advise: “Sites such as Hallshire.com, Venuescanner.com and Hirespace.com offer affordable wedding venues with everything from village halls and pubs to private rooftop terraces and converted barns starting from just £10 an hour. If you’re looking to save even more, having your wedding reception in a garden has become increasingly popular over the years. If a friend, family member or even you have a big enough outdoor space, ask if you could use the space for the evening to host the celebration.”
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2. Book on a weekday rather than a weekend
Weekends may be the popular time slots for weddings, but they cost a lot more. Opt for a weekday, or if you want to save even more money, book your big day outside of the peak summer months.
3. Go all-inclusive
Check out cheap all-inclusive venues, such as Wetherspoons. Illy Goodall, Founder of and Wedding Planner at Illy Elizabeth Weddings says: “When sourcing a venue, try to source one that does everything in-house - including catering, furniture and the bar. Many couples have the misconception that going for a ‘dry hire’ venue will save you money, this just isn't the case. Outsourcing caterers costs more than in-house, due to needing to hire in kitchen equipment, crockery and staff.”
4. Have an intimate wedding
Less guests equals less cost! It may be tempting to invite everyone you know, but your bank balance won’t thank you for it. Be strict with your guest list and consider not inviting plus ones and children to keep costs down. You could also keep the day just family only and have a separate affair with friends.
5. Choose a registry office over a church or stately home
A registry office is the cheapest wedding option - they can come in for as little as £170, according to experts at Slater Menswear. This is considerably less expensive than hiring a sprawling manor house or estate. A church wedding is your second best option if you’re a religious couple and will cost just £512 if you marry in your home parish.
Budget wedding dresses
6. Shop the sales
According to Bridebook, the average UK wedding dress costs £1,385. But you could save hundreds by shopping the sales.
Wedding planner Illy Goodall says: “Sample sales are great for reducing costs in this area, your local bridal boutique will often have sample dresses for sale at a reduced cost. Alternatively, attending wedding fairs is a great way to find sample dress sales.”
7. Hit the high street
Affordable high street shops such as ASOS and H&M have stunning bridal gowns in a variety of styles for as little as £27. Natalia Iachim at Discount Code says: “Over half of brides say that they regret spending so much money on their wedding dress.” So hit those high street shops.
8. Rent your wedding dress
There are plenty of options when it comes to renting a stunning dress, including Something Borrowed and ByRotation. This is a great option if you want a higher end gown, but can’t quite afford the price tag.
9. Go vintage
Big fan of vintage clothing? Repurpose an old dress, or borrow/upcycle a family member’s pre-loved gown - like Princess Eugenie did for her wedding - for a sentimental option.
Budget wedding invitations
10. Try DIY
According to Natalia Lachim at Discount Code, paper extras can add up to £910 to the cost of a wedding. So going DIY is a great way to save money. Buy cheap materials from shops such as Hobbycraft or Wilko and get crafty!
11. Use free online tools
Use free online sites, such as Canva, to print and create your own wedding invites. That way you can make them super personal, as well as cost friendly.
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12. Utilise your friends
If you have a talented friend or family member that can design or create beautiful invites for you, ask them. Chances are, they’ll be flattered to be asked
13. Send E-invites
This helps save the environment as well as cash. Experts at Slater Menswear say: “Although selecting your wedding invites that are adorned with both your names can be a special keepsake from your big day, it can also be extremely costly. From postage stamps to matching envelopes, the price can quickly add up. Sites like Withjoy.com, Paperlesspost.com and Evite.com offer personalised evites for as little as 20p per invite. Essentially, an e-invitation is an electronic invitation that’s sent to your invitees via email and can be a fun introduction to your wedding.”
14. Check out cheaper online stores
- Card Factory: Wedding invitations from as little as 99p
- Etsy: Choose unique invites from 58p whilst supporting a small business
- Amazon: Invites and cards that start from 1p each
- Not on the High Street: Stunning designs from 65p per invite
It's worth a google search to see what cheap pre-made wedding invites you can bag online. We've shared our go-to destinations that have options for as little as 99p. Then it's just down to the postage.
Budget wedding flowers
15. Shop the supermarket
GoodtoKnow’s Anna Bailey opted for supermarket flowers for her big day. She said: "I couldn't believe how expensive wedding flowers are, especially bouquets. The cost of the bridal bouquet and three for the bridesmaids was looking like it would cost me around £150 to £200. So I went to a few supermarkets the day before the ceremony instead.
"It took me a few shops to find what I was looking for. But, I eventually found the Sainbury's Mojito bouquet, made up of white roses, chrysanthemums, blue lisianthus, and foliage - for just £15. It was perfect. I also bought the bridesmaids rose and daffodil posies for £5 each. It all came to £30, plus the cost of some ribbons to tie around them all.
"I had to take out quite a few leaves and foliage to make sure they weren't too bulky. I'd also suggest going a few days before the ceremony to give the flowers the chance to open up. Supermarkets often sell them closed, so they last you longer - but they won't look as good in your photos."
16. Get creative with fake flowers
Sarah Allsop, creative manager at online party products retailer Party Delights says: “Real flowers can be expensive so think about incorporating some silk ones or even collecting your own to add into your décor. Pampas Grass has become a huge wedding trend and makes a beautiful soft statement whilst being a lot more cost effective than real flowers.”
17. Cut down how many people are having flowers
Rather than having bridesmaids’ bouquets and groomsmens’ buttonholes, why not just keep the flowers for the bride and groom? That way you’ll really stand out on your big day, and it will cut a huge cost.
18. Go local and seasonal
If you want to opt for professional flowers, choose seasonal blooms. Wedding planner Illy Goodall says: “Find a local flower farm that will sell florals by the bucket, you can then create your own florals from this seasonal mix. Alternatively, go ask your florist for flowers that are in season, these will be less expensive as they are easier to source.
Budget wedding decor
19. Opt for a cheaper centrepiece
Sarah Allsop of Party Delights advises using wild flowers for a cheap but stunning centrepiece. “When it comes to table settings a mix of roses, daisies and other wildflowers in simple vases make a lovely boho centrepiece.”
20. DIY decorations
This is a great way to save money on your big day. Jess Martin, wedding decoration expert at Ginger Ray says: “Gather friends and family to get involved and create their own decorations for your special day. Whether it be painting signs, creating photo banners, or flower arranging, try hosting a fun pre-wedding flower arranging evening with snacks and fizz.
"If you have the time, start collecting glass bottles to make your own cute lanterns by adding in LED lights and tying in raffia string. Making your own decorations is not only eco-friendly, but is also a great way to cut down on costs, and add a personal touch to your wedding.”
21. Make use of nature
If you’re having an outdoor budget wedding, a boho theme could prove cost effective. Party Delight's Sarah Allsop says: “Nature plays a huge part in a boho chic wedding theme. Mix and match flowers with wooden decorations for a stylish, yet rustic look. Use hessian and mis-matched candles and glass vases for an effortless boho setting. Using old wine or gin bottles as decorations adds the ultimate rustic feel, too.”
22. Head to the high street
While many are tempted to go for bespoke decoration options, Jonathan Bryans, sales director at Weddingsonline says you can save a huge amount by visiting stores such as Ikea. He tells us: “If you’re looking to cut down the prices of wedding decorations, Ikea can prove to be a great asset; it’s a treasure trove for affordable wedding decor: affordable candles, candle holders, mini plants and much more.”
Budget wedding rings
23. Opt for a thin band
Jewellery experts at Queensmith explain: “When it comes to looking for wedding rings on a budget, essentially the thinner the band and lighter the court profile, the cheaper it is going to be as they are priced based on the weight of the metal required to make it and the design time to craft it.”
24. Ditch the diamonds
It goes without saying that a diamond ring will cost a lot more than a plain band. So if you really want to save some pennies, consider a diamond free wedding band.
25. Look for jewellers who offer complementary services
Queensmith experts add: “For example, choosing a jeweller with a free ring resizing policy will mean that if your ring size fluctuates (for example, due to pregnancy or with time), then you can get this changed easily and without cost. Most reputable jewellers should offer free sonic cleans whenever you like, too.”
Budget wedding photography
26. Stock up on disposable cameras
This makes for a fun, money-saving option. Abigail Yearley from TopCashback says: “Consider swapping out an expensive photographer and getting a few disposable cameras instead. Guests can pass the cameras around.”
You can get a bundle of disposable cameras quite reasonably online. We also love the idea of passing a polaroid camera around to capture your memories.
27. Use your loved ones
Phone photography has come on leaps and bounds in recent years. So why not put that Iphone to good use. TopCashback's Abigail adds: “Ask a few photo savvy members of your family to be photographers for the night. The photos will cost half the price, and may even have a closer, family feeling than professional photos would.”
Budget wedding transport
28. Book a black cab
This is usually a cheaper option than hiring a vintage car which often runs into the hundreds. Try firms like London Black Can Transfers. Exclusive hiring usually costs around £70 an hour. Which is a huge saving overall.
29. Ask to use a relative's car
This is a great way of cutting costs and also adds a personal touch. This option is especially great if a relative or loved one has a swanky car you like too.
30. Choose a venue that’s close to your accommodation
The easiest way to save money on transportation is to choose a wedding venue that’s within walking distance of your accommodations, which is much easier to do if you’re planning a hotel wedding.
31. Book a bus
This is a great way of cutting the cost of booking lots of separate vehicles for your wedding party. Plus, it’s a great way of getting everyone excited together. We're fans of this Cream Wedding Bus service for something a bit different. But Routemaster Bus has plenty of options no matter your location.
Budget wedding favours
32. Make DIY favours
Another opportunity to get creative again here. Combat the cost of DIY favours and make them yourself instead. This allows you to decide on a budget that works for you. Whilst also allowing the possibility for a touch of personalisation.
Party Delight's Sarah Allsop says: “DIY wedding favours add a lovely personal touch to your wedding and are cost saving at the same time. Printable wedding favours are a great way to impress your guests and easy to make. Download printable sweet jar templates onto a thick card then simply cut a window out of each sweet jar. Put a handful of sweets into clear cellophane bags and stick to the back of the card with a small piece of sticky tape.”
If baking is your thing, why not have a go at whipping up these wedding cookies - which double up as delicious wedding favours. Otherwise craft site Hobbycraft is your destination for homemade specials. They also have handy guides and tutorials on DIY personalised wedding favours too.
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33. Ditch them altogether
Google trend data shows that the search term ‘are wedding favours necessary’ has received a 9.800% uplift. And wedding planner Illy Goodall is all for kissing the tradition goodbye. "We are seeing more and more weddings without this," she tells us. "This will save you a huge amount of money."
34. Buy lottery tickets or scratch cards
Simple and so fun. Lottery tickets can be bought a few days before and can be as cheap as just £1 per guest. It's something everyone can take part and mingle in too.
Budget wedding hair and makeup
35. Ask a bridesmaid
If one of your bridesmaids is a dab hand with all things hair and makeup, ask them to do you up on your big day to save on costs. Depending on the relationship too, it will allow you to be honest on what works and doesn't work for you during the practice run.
36. Look for someone who offers multiple services
It's a no-brainer really. Rather than hiring two separate people for make-up and hair, Weddingsonline sales director Jonathan Bryans suggests: “Look for services that offer both hair and makeup.” You'll find many professionals offer the service and for a really reasonable price too.
37. Do it yourself
If your bridesmaids aren’t able, more and more people are doing their own bridal hair and makeup nowadays. With the amount of tutorials available on YouTube, you’ll be a pro in no time.
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Gifts/Honeymoon pot
38. Request services over gifts
TopCashback's Abigail Yearley says: "Instead of asking for champagne flutes or a crystal whiskey decanter, why not put together a wish list of things guests can help with? This will not just save you money but take some of the stress away as well.
"This can be things like help with planning/organising the big day or using people’s hobbies and talents to produce memorable moments."
39. Ask for cash or a bank transfer
To avoid ending up with lots of tangible presents you may not need, ask your guests for cash or a transfer instead. That way, you can use it exactly how you want to - but make a plan and spend it wisely. Aka honeymoon or home improvements?
40. Suggest an experience
Afternoon tea, a spa day or couples adventure. Many people prefer to gift an experience rather than handing over hard cash these days. And there's plenty of ways you can organise this.
We like Patchwork - which enables brides and grooms to set up their own website where people can donate money to certain activities chosen by the couple. You can even add Honeymoon activities like a romantic meal out or scuba-diving in the Maldives too. Which in turn brings the cost down for you.
You could also suggest a few activities that take your fancy via Red Letter Days or NotontheHighStreet too.
41. Choose an all-inclusive Honeymoon
Lots of travel sites offer honeymoon packages, and if you want to save even more cash, make sure they’re all-inclusive. That way you don’t have to worry too much about spending money on food and drinks. Bliss.
Wedding insurance
42. Consider whether you really need it
According to moneysavingexpert.com, you should only get wedding insurance if you'd be left out of pocket if something went wrong. Venue cancellation and supplier failure are the two main reasons people buy wedding insurance, so if you’ve not spent much money on these, it may not be worth forking out for insurance.
43. Pay for the big things by credit card
While this isn’t a substitute for insurance, it does give some free protection. Anything you buy that's worth between £100.01 and £30,000 on a credit card is covered under Section 75 of the Consumer Credit Act, which makes the card provider liable if something goes wrong. Even if you only pay a deposit (for example, for the venue) by credit card and the rest in cash you're still covered for the whole cost.
44. Use trusted suppliers
To lessen the risk of something going wrong on your big day, choose reliable companies when you put your wedding together. For example, if your venue is a multi-billion pound hotel chain, you'll be less likely to worry about it going bust and you may not need a pricey wedding insurance policy.
Budget wedding food and drink
45. Get married later in the day
Experts at Slater Menswear say: “Getting married later in the day means that you’ll only have to serve one meal as opposed to two. You can also forgo the traditional wedding breakfast that is usually served the day after the event.”
46. Choose a buffet option
Although the idea of serving a meal is more elegant, a buffet-style feast means that people can come and go as they please. And they added plus - they often come in a lot cheaper than the sit-down version.
47. Make your own bar
Anna Davison, CEO at the Tiny Wedding Company says: “Creating DIY bars is a great way to encourage your guests to help themselves throughout the day. Buy beer barrels from local breweries that tend to offer the pump as a rental. Setting up ‘pimp your own’ gin and prosecco tables is a lovely added extra too.”
48. Create your own food stations
This is a great option if you’re having an outdoor wedding, as you don’t need a formal setting for dining. Jess Martin, Ginger Ray's wedding decoration expert says: “Candy stations are a brilliant alternative to a more formal cake, and add yet another element of fun to your garden wedding. There are tonnes of options out there, from donut and pretzel stands, pick ‘n’ mix, to ice-cream stations.”
49. Ditch the desserts
"Why have a dessert when you already have a delicious wedding cake?" says Jonathan Bryans, sales director at Weddingsonline. "You’re going to have to spend a lot of money on an extraordinarily beautiful cake for the ceremony, therefore you’ll want your guests to enjoy it, instead of spending more money on a dessert.”
Budget wedding cake
50. Go naked
Party Delight's Sarah Allsop says: “A new and inexpensive trend for bohemian weddings is a naked cake, which basically means a wedding cake with no icing. You’ll find this a lot cheaper than a traditional cake and it's also really easy to make yourself.
"Simply stack three Victoria sponge cakes on top of each other, dust them with icing sugar, and then decorate your naked cake with fresh flowers and a wooden cake topper to complete that quintessential boho look.”
51. Keep it local
Opting for a local supplier means the transport costs will be less expensive as they’re in the same area as you. If you're struggling to find one, pop into your local bakery for suggestions. You could also ask neighbours or try to find one on a local Facebook page.
52. Include fake tiers
Weddingsonline's Jonathan Bryans says: “If your dream wedding involves a five-tier cake but you don’t need that amount for your guests, adding a couple of dummy tiers will really help you save up, while also allowing you to get the cake you’ve always dreamed of.”
53. Make it yourself
Of course the cheapest option is to ask around. If you - or any of your wedding guests - are a keen baker, use your big day as an opportunity to show off some skills while saving on a huge wedding cost.
Budget wedding entertainment
54. Ditch the DJ
Spending hundreds on a DJ or a band is no longer necessary. If you have Spotify or Apple Music, you can make your own playlist with wedding songs to keep guests entertained all evening. Similarly Spotify have their own Top 50 Wedding Reception songs playlist - plus other pre-made versions if you don't get round to crafting your own. Just plug in and go.
55. Hire a PA sound system
Tiny Wedding Company's Anna Davison breaks it down best: “PA sound systems are great because they also come with a microphone, perfect for speeches and any announcements throughout the day, you can hire this equipment from £35 or buy the equipment from £100.”
Try a local company if you're looking to hire a PA system to keep the money low on transport costs. Premier Events or Last Minute Musicians are two well-reviewed companies you could otherwise try.
56. Book a package deal
Not keen on a big band but after some intimate live music? Seek out a guitarist and singer in one - or something similar. This way you'll get double the entertainment for less of the price.
“Consider booking singers who accompany themselves on an instrument," says Weddingsonline's Jonathan Bryans. "This will prevent you from having to cover the costs for more than one person."
57. Book early
Demand is always high for wedding entertainment - so it pays to get in their way ahead of time. Most musicians and acts can get booked up to two years in advance. By booking early, you also take advantage of today’s prices and avoid the inevitable rise in rates.
What is the best budget for a wedding?
Deciding on the ideal wedding budget will mean considering many factors such as both of your incomes, family input and how much you have in savings. While the average wedding cost is £30,000, this isn't a one-size-fits-all and everyone's budget will be different.
Jonathan Bryans, sales director at Weddingsonline advises: "Make sure you know your budget. Trying to save money without having a target figure in mind is a lot harder to achieve. Your budget should be realistic and both you and your other half should be clear about what you realistically can afford to save for the wedding celebrations."
- Brides.com have a great way of allocating your budget. This includes spending 40% of your budget on venue and catering, 10% on flowers and 10% on entertainment.
- Hitched also have a great seven step guide for creating a budget that works for you and your partner.
Who pays for the wedding traditionally?
Traditionally, the family - or more specifically, the parents of the bride - pay for the wedding. It’s not clear exactly how this tradition started, but it’s thought to have evolved from the practice of the bride’s family paying a dowry to the husband.
However, this is rarely the case nowadays and couples often save up for their own weddings. As Illy Goodall, Founder of and Wedding Planner at Illy Elizabeth Weddings explains: "Traditions have changed and we find couples are paying for their weddings, rather than other relatives. You do still find contributions from family members but we are steadily seeing less of this."
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