There’s no denying that the pandemic has impacted our sleep – and children are affected too. Try these expert tips, released to mark World Sleep Day, to help little ones fall asleep.
Sleep is a key part of children’s mental and physical development, but parents know that it’s not always easy to settle small ones down for the night. New research, released to mark World Sleep Day today, reveals the impact of the pandemic on UK children’s sleep – along with their biggest fears at bedtime.
The survey conducted by children’s audio system tonies found that:
- 39% of parents feel their child is experiencing trouble sleeping
- 31% say their children are having worse nightmares because of the pandemic
The research also reveals the most common fears which stop little ones from sleeping, and the most recurring nightmares that children experience. This includes getting chased by a frightening person or animal (31%) and being lost or left behind in public (31%). Almost a third (31%) of children also said they are afraid of the dark, which prevents them from falling asleep.
Top 5 things preventing children from falling asleep:
1. Believing a monster/scary creature is in their bedroom (39%)
2. Fear of missing out (what grown-ups are doing while they are asleep) (38%)
3. Separation anxiety (38%)
4. Fear of having a bad dream if they go to sleep (33%)
5. Fear of the dark (33%)
Over two-fifths (42%) of parents say the pandemic has heightened their child’s stress and anxiety. Almost a third (31%) reported an increase in (or worsening) nightmares over the last two years and 38% of parents said that their child struggles to go to sleep due to separation anxiety.
When asked about the key reasons that children were struggling to fall asleep, believing a monster or scary creature in their bedroom was the leading cause (39%), followed closely by fears of missing out (38%) and worries about having bad dreams when they sleep (33%).
Top 5 effects the pandemic has had on children:
1. Increased stress/anxiety (42%)
2. Increased loneliness (41%)
3. Trouble sleeping (39%)
4. New fears they weren’t afraid of before (37%)
5. Increased or worse nightmares (31%)
‘The pandemic created fears that children did not have before, and as a result, parents are finding it more and more difficult to help their little ones drift off, and sleep peacefully until the morning,’ says Pinky Laing, Partnerships and PR Manager at tonies® UK and Ireland. ‘Sleep is a key part of children’s mental and physical development and it’s important to adopt a positive attitude to sleep early on.’
Top 5 themes present in children’s nightmares:
1. Monsters (37%)
2. Getting lost (in shopping centres or busy areas) (31%)
3. Being chased by a frightening person or animal (31%)
4. Scary animals (30%)
5. Falling (23%)
Six tips to help your child fall asleep at bedtime
With two fifths (39%) of children experiencing trouble sleeping since the beginning of the pandemic, tonies has shared these simple ways to help children ease into a relaxed state, drift off, and stay fast asleep until the morning:
1. Ease gently into bedtime
Heading upstairs doesn’t need to signal ‘the end’ of a fun day, or punishment for bad behaviour. Try moving living room evening play to your child’s bedroom to create an easier transition into nighttime, and bedtime. This is a great way to gradually ease them into a restful, sleep-ready mindset before it’s time for lights out.
2. Switch off screens
We all know that tablets, phones, and televisions aren’t helpful at bedtime, particularly for children. Not only do screens prevent them from nodding off, but they negatively impact the quality of sleep they have. The blue light interferes with the production of melatonin, the natural sleep hormone which regulates our body clocks and sends a cue to go to sleep. The recommended guidance is to switch off screens an hour before bedtime, or at the very least, switch to ‘night time mode’ which removes that blue light.
Even better, introduce activities that can help balance screen time usage, such as audiobooks.
3. Consistency is key
A good routine is the cornerstone of a great night’s sleep. Creating a routine, and sticking to it, will lay the foundation of a positive sleep practice. Start with a warm bath – proven to increase the blood flow which assists with the natural circadian process, helping us fall asleep quicker and improving our quality of sleep. The next stop on the bedtime routine is to get cosy; put on pyjamas, get comfy and settle in for a story. Sharing a story can help foster closeness with your little one and encourage a love of reading.
4. Swap out sugar
A fizzy drink can be a real treat, however, try to avoid it around dinner time or in the evening. Some of these drinks have hidden caffeine content. Even in the smallest traces, this can prevent your child from falling asleep and can even increase anxiety. A drink of water, sugar-free squash, or a glass of warm milk are recommended alternatives. Conversely, some food has high amino acid content, which encourages the production of melatonin. Cheese, fruit, and nuts are great foods to introduce as a bedtime snack.
5. Create the ideal sleep environment
Making sleep a positive experience is key to creating a fuss-free bedtime, and curating a calming sleep environment helps. Set the room to a temperature that suits your child by putting the fan on or increasing the heating. Also, consider your child’s bedding preference – do they need a thicker duvet or a lighter one? Make it a sensory experience; lavender is a calming scent, so consider placing a diffuser in your child’s room.
6. Make your child feel safe
The belief that there’s a scary monster in the bedroom is the number one fear preventing children from falling asleep. What’s more, a third are too scared of having a bad dream to sleep, and another third are scared of the dark. Your child may need help to conquer their fears, however irrational. There are lots of ways to achieve this, and to help reassure children and encourage a good night’s sleep, tonies® has released ‘Only Monsters can Hear This’: a special downloadable audio which ‘shoos away’ mischievous bedtime beasts. After a soothing introduction to ease children into a sleepy state, it plays a sound that ‘only monsters can hear’ to make them hurry away.
Finally, if you’re looking for extra resources to help your child sleep at night or overcome bedtime worries, you might also be interested in our sleep aids buying guide or these helpful bedtime products – all of which I’ve used with my own children:
The Toniebox from tonies® is a screen-free interactive audio system for children consisting of figurines called Tonies, and a speaker, known as a Toniebox. A range of sleep-inducing Nap Time Tonies are available including In the Night Garden Nature Sounds and White Noise, designed to help children drift off easily and enjoy a restful night’s sleep.
Spray happy dreams onto your child’s pillow, just like the BFG does. Fragranced with eucalyptus and calming lavender, The BFG’s Pillow Spray is ideal for helping to create a positive environment when it’s time for little ones to go to bed. Let their imagination run wild so they can look forward to a night of happy dreams ahead of them. It’s vegan and naturally derived.
A good night’s sleep starts with the comfiest of beds and some soft, cosy bedding. If your little one isn’t sleeping or wakes at night, it’s worth making sure their bed and bed linens are as comfy as can be. The little eve 3 piece starter set includes a cot mattress, organic cot mattress protectors and organic cotton cot sheets – everything your baby needs for a good night’s sleep.
It nightmares and bedtime fears are a worry for your little one, make a Worry Eater a fun part of their bedtime routine. Available in a range of cute and cuddly designs, a Worry Toy will ‘eat’ your little ones worries at the end of each day – they can write them on a slip of paper and then pop them in the Worry Eater’s mouth and zip them away forever.
It’s one of the Duchess of Cambridge’s favourite bedtime books from her own childhood – The Owl Who Was Afraid of the Dark is a children’s classic that should be a part of any little one’s bedtime routine if they’re not a fan of the dark. Dark is nasty, according to Plop, but he soon changes his mind after an exciting nighttime adventure.