8 essential money lessons ALL parents should teach their kids

Teaching your children about money has never been more important. At a time when the cost of living is soaring and family budgets are stretched to the max, helping your kids understand how to manage money more effectively can help set them up for success.

Finding the best bank accounts for kids is a good place to start and can help to give your child some financial independence. The best pocket money apps can also encourage good money habits and teach them how to save money. 

While children might be obsessed with the best toys, there are some specially-designed money games for kids to make the learning even more engaging for little ones.

Chief learning officer at online learning platform Atom Learning, Anna Masterson, told us: “Financial literacy is crucial for children’s development, future success, and generally helping them to get their bearings in the world. Early money lessons can help them build essential skills and habits that will benefit them at school and throughout their lives. And, with the ongoing cost of living crisis, understanding money gives children a better picture of their society.” 

1. Where money comes from

A good first step is to sit down with your child and talk to them about the concept of money and where it comes from. How much detail you go into will depend on the age of your child.

You might want to explain that most people earn money by working. But it’s also possible to get money by winning the lottery or a competition or by inheriting money from family members when they pass away.

You can also explain how a bank looks after people’s money in separate accounts, which each account holder has access to. Additionally, it can be helpful to explain how interest is paid on savings accounts, giving savers a little extra money.

2. What money is for

The next step is to teach your children how money is used. Explain that it can be exchanged for goods that you need or want such as food, clothes, a car or a house. Show your child both coins and banknotes, but also ensure they understand the concept of digital money and paying for items with a debit or credit card.

Then, when you’re out and about, try to show your children how you spend money to pay for goods and services.

Chief banking officer at Starling Bank, Helen Bierton, says: “Think about taking your child grocery shopping as this is a great place to talk about the cost of household items. You can ask them to consider the cost of different products or brands and get their thoughts on where money is best spent.”

You might even want to start a game to see who can find the cheapest loaf of bread or packet of cereal so that your children start to understand how prices vary. 

For younger children, there are also board games like Orchard Toys’ Pop to the Shops and Money Match Cafe that can help teach them about handling money and giving change. 

3. How people earn money 

Another important lesson is understanding that money is a limited resource that needs to be earned, usually through having a job. 

Starling Bank’s Helen Bierton says: “Help your child to see the value of money by setting them basic chores such as keeping their room tidy or cleaning up after the family pet, and only give them their pocket money when these tasks are complete.”

Pocket money apps such as GoHenry and NatWest Rooster Money can help you with this as they enable you to easily set chores and tasks for your kids to carry out. Once they’ve completed them, they get paid.

4. How to budget

Knowing how to budget is an essential life skill, especially given rising costs, so make sure your children understand how to do it and what it means. You might want to show them how you budget the money you earn to cover certain expenses, for example.  

Helen Bierton of Starling Bank adds: “Give your kids more autonomy in money-making decisions to help them understand its value. Try setting them the task of taking over the household budget for a day, or a specific task such as planning and budgeting for a family meal.”

5. How to look at the bigger picture

Once children are more aware of money and it's value, any money they have can often seem like it's burning a hole in their pocket. But it's a good opportunity to teach them about what they could get if they spend now, but also what they could get if they saved up for something longer-term. 

This helps to instil a practical and sensible approach to money, with a focus on the future, and introduces the idea of delayed gratification. 

6. The difference between needs and wants

Budgeting can also help children distinguish between wants and needs, helping them to understand what is essential, such as clothing and food, and what we might like to have but can ultimately live without.

Atom Learning’s Anna Masterson says: “Drawing this distinction can also help to manage your child’s expectations (which is especially useful when we’re all feeling the pinch). There might even be a bonus lesson here about how advertisements online or on TV can shape our desires.” 

7. The value of saving

Opening a savings account for your children might encourage them to put some money aside from time to time, but to really benefit, they need to understand why saving is important. Setting savings goals, such as saving enough to buy a new game for the Xbox or spend on a day out, can help with this. 

Paul Titterton from personal wealth business abrdn says: “Working with your children towards longer-term saving targets can be really rewarding and teaches them that resisting the temptation to spend immediately will mean you can do much more with your money.

“To help explain how saving and investing for the long-term works – and how it can ultimately help generate more money - try offering a ‘bonus’ to their savings goals when possible. For example, if they’re saving for a new game that costs £25, say you’ll give them the £5 if they can save £20.”

You can also encourage your child to save by using a variation of the 1p savings challenge which can show them the benefits of saving regularly. 

8. Why it's good to give back

Finally, it’s a good idea to teach your children the value of sharing and giving back. 

Louise Hill, co-founder & COO of GoHenry, explains: “Teaching your kids about giving to charity can have a huge impact on their lives. It helps them develop empathy, compassion, generosity, and a sense of responsibility to their community. Plus, it feels pretty good to help others in need!” 

Teaching kids about money is hugely beneficial, but it's important to plan for what will happen to your child financially should the worst happen. This could be making sure you have life insurance, or a will, in place to give your family peace of mind should you pass away prematurely. Knowing how to write a will and what it should include is key, but it's also crucial to understand what you should never put in a will too.